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Question by Maressa Yates:

How can i approach my 14 year old son and give him the sex talk?

I have recently found out my son has become sexually active with his Gf, i feel bad about it because his sister walked in on him and his gf. And my daughter was upset and confused and that night told me what happened. Because my son was supposed to be watching his sister because me and my husband were on our way home from work. And well i have nit approached my son yet because i am unsure what to say or go about bring this up and talking to him about it, Advice?




Best answer:

Answer by Cookie Preston
Talk to him right away and don't delay and don't be hesitant or embarrassed, You're the parent here, for heavens sake. Just sit him down and say you know what 's going on ,and tell him how you found out and do not be judgmental. The approach should be nothing about if he's a bad person, or should not be doing this, or anything like that. The approach should be dealing with the facts as they are. He's sexually active and so deal with it. First just say you know what's going on. Next tell him you know he knows about STDs and pregnancy but say again that he MUST use protection and he must not rely on the girl using protection. He has to take responsibility for himself for that. I would also address the issue of his irresponsibility while babysitting, which is the part where I would be angry with him. It was irresponsible of him to be acting like that when he was supposed to be watching his sister. How old is his sister anyway? That behavior when he's supposed to be babysitting is unacceptable. I know you don't want to deal with this and have put off approaching him, but yes parenting can be pretty unpleasant sometimes. Just deal with it.

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